I have this friend. I’ll refrain from using names, just in case she somehow runs across my blog. Very unlikely, but like people say, weirder things have happened. So this friend, we’re really close, almost the same person in a lot of ways. She’s been with this guy, let’s call him DB (you can guess what that means), for three or four years I think, I can never remember the exact number.
For reasons unknown, DB hates me. Literally is filled with rage at the mention of my name. It’s pretty impressive, considering I haven’t done anything to incite this reaction. Except the fact he thinks I’m going to turn my friend into a lesbian. Let’s be clear for a minute. I have never been sexually/physically attracted to a female in my entire life. If you have/are, do you booboo, that’s your thing. But, for anyone who knows me, they know how insanely dumb that accusation (real or imagined) is, seriously. Anyways, here’s the truth. He caught me in bed with my friend. Fully clothed, complete with sweatpants and a hoodie, sitting two foot apart sharing a huge blanket. It was freakin’ cold and we weren’t gonna freeze to death while watching a movie. Somehow, this translated into lesbian activities in his mind, and thus the deep dwelling hatred began. I have my own theories about what his real issue(s) is/are, but that’s a different sub blog.
Anyways, he has decided that he only wants him and my friend to do all the planning for their wedding. Yes, they’re getting married (ugh). So I’m supposed to be secretly helping my friend plan this wedding that I’m not allowed to be a part of and barely allowed to be invited to (cue toddler temper tantrums from DB).
I’m torn.
I really want to help my friend out, since I was supposed to be her MOH, but that’s not happening as of right now, because she’s giving in to his temper tantrums, but I also feel like a dirty little secret instead of a BFF helping her BFF with the wedding of her dreams. What to do? All advice is welcome. But really….
What should I do? Keep helping? Tell my friend I can’t help when I’m not wanted? UGH. What would y’all do? Help a sister out. Have an awesome Friday!
Lovingly, Lea